
Are you selling me something? Cutting the sales cringe factor by focussing on ‘value’
By Carolyn Quainton in Customer, Inspiration, Sales, Training
What’s the first word that pops into your head when you hear “sales”?
If your answer sounds like “pushy”, “smarmy”, or just plain “ugh”, you’re not alone. Daniel Pink, author of To Sell is Human, asked people the same question—and most responded with negative emotions. No surprise there. For many business owners, sales feels awkward at best and soul-crushing at worst.
You might feel completely confident in your product or service, but when it comes to talking about it—really selling it—it suddenly feels like bragging. That awkwardness stems from a common misconception: that selling is about you.
In reality, selling today revolves around the customer. It’s about building trust in customer relationships by understanding their needs, mapping their journey, and creating real value for them. You don’t need to pitch, you need to connect. When you embed a customer-centric culture into your sales approach, everything changes.
Value over hype
Modern sales no longer hinge on flashy pitches. Customers want meaningful experiences. They want to feel heard, respected, and understood. That’s where emotional intelligence in customer service and consultative selling techniques make a difference. Selling isn’t about what your product does, it’s about what it does for them.
To understand that, you need to adopt a mindset rooted in customer empathy training and customer journey mapping. You need to ask:
What problem does this solve for them?
How will this improve their day-to-day?
What experience will they remember?
Focusing on value not only humanises the sales experience but also contributes directly to customer engagement strategies and customer retention strategies. Customers return to brands that understand them, not just sell to them.
How we help you sell without the cringe
Our programmes develop your team’s emotional intelligence and equips them with sales techniques for closing deals, handling difficult customers, and upselling and cross-selling in customer service, all without resorting to high-pressure tactics. Instead, we train your staff to foster trust and loyalty by creating authentic conversations and listening to customer needs.
The result? Customers who not only buy, but come back, and bring others with them. This directly supports your customer retention goals while enhancing brand advocacy.
Let’s make it effortless
We believe in customer experience management that doesn’t feel forced—for you or your customers. When you embrace a customer-centric culture, selling no longer feels like selling. It feels like helping.
If you’re ready to sell with empathy and impact, give us a call. We’ll listen to what your organisation needs and show you how our training can make a real difference. No cringe. No hard sell. Just honest, human connection.
Our sales training programme will equip your employees with the skills and confidence to deliver a more valuable, effortless and emotional sales experience to your customers. This will lead to happier customers who come back for more and recommend you to their friends. The bottom line: you’ll sell more, and you’ll sell it in a way that’s rewarding for employees and customers.
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